Relationships with Children
All of those who enter your reality are known to you eternally, including your children. They are part of your soul family. You had pre-birth agreements with them. Your primary agreement was to provide them a way into physical reality. Once they were born (or even conceived, this agreement was complete.
You may or may not have made other agreements with them. Their pre-birth intentions determined the life they would live this time around. You may or mat not have had the agreement for them to actually be born. Many souls choose not to be physically born. The physical experience in the womb may have been all they needed. If you experienced what you call a miscarriage, your agreement was met. They did not intend or desire to be physically born at that time and place. Sometimes things change and the soul wishes to return to the nonphysical, prior to the actual birth experience. This is also true of abortions. You might perceive that you made the decision to abort the pregnancy. You must know that the decision was made by both of you at the nonphysical level. You simply carried out the decision.
If the soul decides to be born, it will pick the date and time. It must be vibrationally matched to the Earth on the day and time it is born. No matter what you think and regardless of the decisions you believe you made, the timing of the birth is a vibrational matter. Your children were born at the perfect time for them.
Your children chose you as parents and you agreed to this choice. There are no mistakes. You know your children eternally in the nonphysical. In the physical, you forget who they are. If you could know them for the truth of who they are, you would have completely diﬀerent relationships. It would neither serve them or you to remember exactly who they are. However, if you could see your children from a higher perspective, you could drop some of the behaviors prevalent in your culture. You do not know more than they do in most things. Of course, they are eager to learn, but since your perspective is so limited, there’s not much value in perceiving that you are wiser, clearer, more connected or even more accustomed to life in physical reality. You can let all that go.
Your children were a vibrational match to the Earth at the time of their birth
You were a match at the time of your birth. The Earth’s vibration increases as time goes by. You are not able to keep up with the accelerating vibration of the Earth, because you oﬀer far more resistance. On the day of your child’s birth, its vibration is higher than yours. This is an important concept to grasp. In essence, the child is actually more evolved than the parent. The child is more prepared to exist on Earth at the time of its birth (and throughout the rest of its life) than the parent. You might perceive that the child is really the parent and the parent is the child. You might see this to be true as your own parents age. They are not as able to keep up with the accelerating vibration of the planet as you are.
Just look at the new technology that exists on your planet today. New technology exists at a higher-vibrational level compared to older technology. In order to be a match to the new technology, you must raise your vibration to match it. Your children have an easy time with new technology, while your parents do not. It is due to a vibrational gap, rather than a generational gap.
Your children are vibrationally pure on the day of their births. They exist in a state that is very close to their authentic state (as they are known in the nonphysical realm). Not much is diﬀerent between the physical representation in human form and their nonphysical representation in soul form. They fully expect to receive all they need to enter and live as a helpless baby in a physical world. They have no agenda, no worries and no attachments to outcomes. They exist in a relatively purer state of love and acceptance.
Unless a need is not being met, they exist in joy. When they need something, they will feel emotion and act on an urge to change the conditions. This feeling is new to them. They cry and someone comes along to assist them. They receive everything they need when they need it. At any point in the new soul’s life, it can choose to return to the nonphysical. Whether the soul chooses to live one day or a hundred years, it is a full and complete life. You choose to measure life on your own scale. You have arbitrarily chosen to believe that a hundred years is preferable to one day, yet this can only be perceived from a highly limited perspective. If you could remember the life you experience in the nonphysical, you would all choose to return today.
It is not helpful to have fear of death when it comes to your children. Of course you have limiting beliefs and you will do everything to ensure their daily survival. But you must know that if a child chooses to return to the nonphysical, at any point in their life, this is always their divine choice. It is their right. You would never come to physical reality if you knew you could not leave if you wanted to. You would never go to Disneyland if you could not leave when you wanted to. You cannot control the realities of others, even your children. All attempts to control, guide or change their lives are based in fear. In love, you would never, ever change any of it. You are simply not skilled in choosing your perspective and so your beliefs are triggered and you feel negative emotion.
As a parent, your limiting beliefs are constantly triggered and you exist in a perpetual state of fear. It’s always then fear of negative emotion. Nothing your child experiences really has any true ramiﬁcations for you. It’s always a case of negative emotion. If they cry, you feel negative emotion. If they hurt themselves, you feel negative emotion. If they’re upset, you feel negative emotion. You perceive that your child is responsible for the negative (and positive) emotions that you receive. This is not true. You are receiving emotions based on your choice of perspective in the moment.
As your children grow, they will adopt limiting beliefs just as they knew they would prior to their births. Some of those beliefs will come from you, other adults, their friends, family members, teachers and society in general. They will for their world view and their personas. They will perceive that emotions come as a result of events that are initiated by outside conditions and people. This is natural and a fundamental aspect of physical reality. That is unless they are taught otherwise.
Your children are here on a journey of self-discovery
Prior to their births, they set their intentions for what they wanted to experience in this lifetime. In addition to choosing you and the time and place of their births, they chose their bodies, personalities, talents and attributes among other things. They set all of this up in advance. Their pre- birth intentions were mostly general, just as yours were. They intended to express their love, experience true freedom and abundance, and to expand in joy. They are guided by their inner selves, just as you are.
Your children cannot get it wrong, since there is no wrong anywhere in the universe. They cannot fail or lose. They cannot be rejected. They are prepared for everything they experience. The cannot remember who they are or who you are. They will all move from fear to love in their lifetimes. Some will come to know who they are in this lifetime. Others will not. There is no rush, since this is an eternal journey. Whatever they are here to explore is for them and doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with you. If they are alive in physical reality, you have done your job.
Your children will have manifestation events. These events are highly valuable. They give them the opportunity to discover more about who they are. If you choose to smooth out these events for them, handle their problems, or inﬂuence them away from what they are here to explore, it does not matter, but it will always be based in fear and it will not be helpful to them. If you could take a step back and allow them to sift and sort their way through their childhoods, they will gain conﬁdence and resiliency. These traits will help them to travel their inspired paths of self-discovery.
There are no accidents, nothing is random, there’s no such thing as luck. You are in your children’s lives for a reason. Think about who you truly are. You are all eternal, magniﬁcent beings of pure positive love and acceptance. You are intrepid explorers. You are highly advanced beings. You have all come forth to create new pathways in love for others to follow. You are learning more about the mechanism of physical reality, the laws of the universe and who you truly are. You are adopting more empowering beliefs and a new approach to life. You are among the ﬁrst to arrive and you are leading the way through the illusion and into the truth. Your children came to be inﬂuenced by what you are here to discover. They came to be in your presence in physical reality to be closer to the truth. They knew you would be an inspiring beacon of light for them to follow.
Some of you will have children who are ready to hear this information. Some of you will have children who reject these ideas. They will be at diﬀerent places of their journeys. Wherever they may be on their journey is perfect. You do not need them to be where you are in order for you to feel good. The only way to feel good is to accept them wherever they are.
Some of your children are on even more advanced journeys than you. They have the prior experiences and are equipped with whatever they need. Their journeys may seem diﬃcult from your perspective. However, they always possess all the rights and inner strength needed to navigate their own path. If you can trust their divine intentions, you will be able to support them, but only when you are in alignment yourself.
In alignment, you’ll receive the inspiration to act in ways that support your child’s journey. When you’re out of alignment, you’ll receive urges to change or control them in some way. If you choose to act on urges, you will explore fear. If you choose to act only when inspired, it will be for your highest good and the good of your children as well.
You cannot make a mistake as a parent. There is far more going on than you can begin to imagine. Everything is always working out for all involved. Your children will receive whatever they need when they need it to travel on their journeys of self-exploration. There’s nothing you should or should not do to help them. The parent-child relationship is intense, we know. But above all, you intend to experience it all in joy. Always remember that all of your pre-birth intentions were to expand in joy. The joy part is up to you. It will always be based on whichever perspective you choose. Choose the higher perspective and you will see the truth of who they are.
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