Hello Joshua,

Thank you for your insightful answers from the past. I am not quite sure how to ask my question, because it’s multi-leveled. First question is; I have absolutely no idea where on my journey in my life to go next, at all. No clue. I have been on a bit of a hiatus for the last 14 months due to some unforeseen circumstances and usually have an idea about the things that I would like to accomplish, etc… And for once in my life, I have no clue whatsoever.

I have an idea of the things I need to do to get me moving in the direction I would like to be, but really nothing clear. My friend was very clear about what she wanted to happen in her life, and it happened almost instantly. Where do I go from here? Lately, I have felt hopeless due to this, and not really much like myself. Where do I go to get some kind of direction? Help!

Thank you so much.

Dear Kimmie,

This is a trick question, isn’t it? You have a very strong idea of what you would like to pursue, yet you are not allowing it due to a little fear and self-doubt. You think you have to do something. You have always been driven and goal-oriented, but now you have had the chance to relax and regroup and you think you should be doing something productive. Here’s our answer to you (but you’re not going to like it): have fun, relax, release your self-imposed pressure to “find it,” and start going with the flow. You are going with the flow now and that is why this is a trick question. You are doing everything right, but you have this feeling based in fear that you are not doing what you think you should be doing. It feels different now and so you do not imagine that everything is going perfectly according to design.

Imagine that what you want will unfold by itself without you having to do anything other than to consciously create an environment of feeling good. You understand the laws of the universe at some level, but now you are trying to incorporate those laws by approaching life as you always have. You think you should be dong something to make the conditions better, rather than feeling something and allow those feelings to be manifested as real things and experiences in your reality. This is how it works. You feel and then you receive. So then, what do you want to feel? What do you want to experience next? Why do you want it?

The first thing to understand is the difference between what you think you want and what you truly want. What you think you want is often influenced by the common dreams and aspirations of your society and you tend to move in that direction hoping that when you achieve what you think you want you’ll feel better. That approach is the old approach to life and it doesn’t work. What you truly want is unique to you and you may not even be aware of it. It is based on who you really are (a limitless being of pure positive love and acceptance) and the intentions you made prior to your birth. Have you any desires? Are these desires born out of some conditions you do not like and want to fix or are they true desires, meaning they are created from new feelings you would like to explore? That’s a question you’ll have to answer yourself. All we are saying is that it might be difficult to identify what you truly want and even harder for a goal-oriented person such as yourself to plot the execution of the desire.

You cannot se how the desire will unfold from where you are now because your perspective at this current vibrational level is limited. Who you will be a year from now is quite different. The thing you must do is learn to feel good now, learn to have faith in the laws of the universe, go with the flow of life, trust that what you want will unfold as long as you allow it, and create an environment of allowing by seeing that you are perfect as you are and nothing needs to change. Feel good. That’s all you have to do. Feeling good creates an environment where you can receive inspiration. Move in the direction of whatever seems interesting, fun, or exciting in the moment. Move forward in the moment. Push past fear in the moment. Do what you like in the moment. Release your attachment to any particular outcome. Judge everyone and everything as right. Do not judge them as wrong even if they disappoint you. That’s just a manifestation event and an opportunity to reassess a limiting belief.

We specifically delayed our answer a few weeks because we knew that life would unfold in such a way that this answer now seems irrelevant. However, you are at a different vibrational level now and so our answer can sink in just a little bit further. Once you understand that this is all a game and that you can play it anyway you like, because it is your game, then all the answers will flow to you and you can just do whatever seems like the most fun thing to do in the moment. That is truly the key to living an abundant, fascinating, and expansive life. A life you already enjoy. With our love for the fun, exciting, and interesting person you are,

We are Joshua