Dear Joshua,

About "perfect timing" for things to happen. I understand that I can find the meaning when things occur in a specific moment, manifestations events. Is it a "perfect timing" for the day we transition too? Like it happens in a specific day for a reason? The day of the accident of Joey, it was my mother’s birthday. My mom died exactly 20 years ago, in 1993, from the day of the accident, in 2013. Joey was 12, and my mom died on March 12, 1993. Joey’s birthday is March 21. could this be a sign for me from my mom, reassuring me about her presence, and that Joey was going to be OK? or I am imagining to much?

Thanks and Regards

Dear Valeria,

There are no accidents. There are no coincidences. If you had all planned this together and wanted to leave you a sign that everything was right, that everything was okay, and that everything was done on purpose, could you imagine a better way to do it? You are supposed to be connected and this perfect creation happened just the way it did so that you could realize that something is going on here. Nothing is random. Everything is by design.

It might be difficult for you to believe that one chooses the time and date of their birth and also chooses the time and date of their death. You might believe that death is unwanted, therefore no one would want to transition at a certain time. But death is not unwanted, it is joyous. Birth is often uncomfortable, but death is extremely easy and enjoyable. What we would imagine would be hard to believe is that you would not see the coincidence of these dates as such an obvious sign.

You have not lost your mother, she is with you. You have not lost your son, he is with you. They are both with you and will always be with you. You just have to understand that all this has happened so that you can cheer up, start enjoying life, get into a better emotional state of being, and when you are ready, connect with them in a way that is deeper and more meaningful.

Once you have moved through the process from a low emotional state of being to a higher emotional state of being, you will be ready to connect with them once again. Once you have started to control the thoughts you think so that they are more pleasant, you will be in alignment with their vibration and you will be ready for them to communicate with you.

This is part of physical reality that has yet to be discovered. All humans have the ability to connect with loved ones who have made their transition to the nonphysical realm. They are still primarily focused on you. You have the ability to tune your thoughts to theirs and to have a connection. You are going to be one of the first to lead this movement and to allow others to see that it is not only possible to connect with those who have transitioned, but rewarding and enjoyable as well.

You are greatly loved and are the focus of lots of attention.