One On One

  • Emma Question #1


    I'm excited to begin this journey! Firstly, I'd like to ask you a question about feeling anxiety around money. I do earn enough money to afford this program, but paying for it over the next 6 months means I will not be able to save much money after each pay (or do lots of online shopping like I normally do haha). Not saving money makes me feel irresponsible and insecure. Intellectually, I understand money is just energy and my vibration around it is what decides how much flows to me, but my feelings haven't quite caught up to this understanding and I still experience anxiety. How can I soothe myself around this?

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  • Emma Question #2


    Thanks for the answer, I already feel a little bit less worried about money now. I can see that the only reason I want money is to be able to experience or have certain things in my life, and the reason I want to save money is to feel safe and secure. But why should I require a savings account to feel secure when the whole entire universe is looking after me, right? I just need to focus on the things I want to use the money on, and be open to the possibility that they could come into my life in any number of ways, not just by me earning money.

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  • Emma Question #3


    I have been trying to think of something specific to ask you today, and have decided on the topic of my mother. As I was driving over to my parents house tonight, I was dreading the thought of her asking me if I have done my clothes washing yet, as I haven't, and I feel like she always judges me for being "lazy". So sure enough, when I got there she said "what have you been up to today Emma? Did you get your washing done?". I got angry and replied "out of all the things you could ask me about my life, why do you ask me if I've done my washing? Stop asking me that every time I see you.". Now I am annoyed at myself for getting triggered by her like that. I know by me asking her to stop asking me that, I am demanding that she behaves in a certain way in order for me to feel better. But I know I shouldn't ask outside things to change in order to make me feel better and I must feel better first myself. So what can I do to stop being so reactive and defensive around my mother and become more of an allower?

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  • Emma Question #4


    There is this guy I have been messaging who I quite like the idea of and am excited about him, but he takes agggeeeesssss to reply to messages. Like, days. I feel resistance towards this, I am pushing against it and making it wrong because I would really like our conversation to continue. I find myself frequently checking my phone for any messages. What is the meaning behind this manifestation? What am I supposed to learn from this?

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  • Emma Question #5


    Today I have been trying to analyze the fear I have in regards to the guy not replying to me fast enough, and have been hitting & moving through different layers of fear. The first was me being attached to the specific outcome of the scenario I have dreamed up in my mind with this guy. Secondly, it was me really wanting this to happen as evidence of the shifts I have made recently and to reassure me that I'm on the right track and things really are happening for me now. The layer of fear I have just hit now is the actual meaning I take from this guy taking ages to reply. I take it to mean that he really isn't that interested in me or getting to know me. That I said the wrong things or I am somehow not good enough. That I am not good enough for the type of guys I actually like. So does this whole manifestation really boil down to a self-worth issue?

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  • Emma Question #6


    I've got a bit of a deeper question today to mix things up. Sorry that it turned out to be a massive essay haha!

    So, everything is just energy. I am a clump of energy that I perceive to be physical through my physical senses, which send data to my brain and my brain processes & interprets this data. All of the data that is sent to my brain is just a representation of my own vibration, because reality mirrors back my vibration.

    From my understanding, all thoughts that we have are actually received. We receive thoughts, based on our vibration. But now I am thinking: what really controls changes in our vibration?

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  • Emma Question #7


    After your last answer and the discussions on the call today, I have been thinking about my desire for a relationship as a status symbol to prove my worth, and have been trying to imagine what sort of relationship I would want if proving my worth was totally out of the picture. I am enjoying this new way of thinking. I really want to become someone who fully knows her self worth and doesn't require anything external to prove it! I really want to reach the place of not caring at all what anyone thinks of me!

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  • Emma Question #8


    I must say that your last answer stirred up a lot of negative emotion in me and I was dwelling in it all day. I really didn't like the idea that I have to catch up with this girl to uncover a limiting belief in order to get all that I want. I wanted to write back to you and list all the reasons why that would be a bad idea, why that wouldn't be fun for me, why she is a crazy person etc. And I was thinking, the idea of telling myself I don't have to do this thing if I don't want to feels like relief, and aren't I supposed to be reaching for relief and feeling better? Why is it in this instance that I have to do something that doesn't feel good? But later on in the day I realised - wow, I am pushing against who this girl is as a person sooo much. I am making her wrong. I have ever since I was a kid. But no one is wrong. Everyone is good and perfect as they are. I want to love and accept everyone; so I want to stop pushing against who she is now and just let go and allow. To accept her anyway. How can I ever learn to love and accept myself if I am not willing to do this with others? So I sent her a message back saying I will let her know next time I'm heading down her way and we can catch up.

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  • Emma Question #9


    I have a fear that I have noticed in myself before and I have tried to soothe, but it has popped back up for me again after reading your last answer.

    So I know everything is right and I can't make any mistakes and I am always expanding and moving towards desires. BUT, if I want to receive all that I want, I need to pay attention to my resistance and turn it around when it comes up. Well, I am scared that I am somehow going to stay resistant all my life. That I will try to soothe my resistance, but I will not fully figure it out and will keep on blocking desires coming to me.

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  • Emma Question #10


    In question #6 you said the following:

    "If you can feel good about yourself and accept yourself as worthy, unique and perfect as you are, and evolving everyday, then you can start to focus on your true desires. Now, since you don't really know what they are or how they will eventually manifest, why not allow everything to be right as it is and go with the flow of life?"

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  • Emma Question #11


    I want to ask about the degree of soothing resistance. I think I have a perception that if I soothe a negative feeling "correctly" then I will feel suddenly amazing and really happy again. Sometimes when I realise I am in a negative state and I reach for all sorts of different thoughts to soothe it, I feel a little bit better, but still have a bit of anxiety there in the background, even though I have reached for all the better feeling thoughts I can think of in that moment. Does this mean I haven't done a good enough job of soothing the emotion, or is the anxiety just a left over feeling from the momentum of the previous negative focus?

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  • Emma Question #12


    Today I have been thinking about how you said to me I should look at opportunities that come into my life that I make excuses for and think about doing them anyway. To get out of my comfort zone and expand more rapidly. When you say this, do you mean for things that the idea of excite or interest me, but I have fear of actually doing them? I know everything is right, I should love and accept everything and everyone, but we still have preferences, right? So I don't have to personally like everything do I? We each have our own tastes in life. Meaning, I don't have to say yes to opportunities that really don't interest me in the first place?

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  • Emma Question #13


    In response to your question in the last answer, if a movie star messaged me I would feel excited about this because it would make me feel unique and special. I would be using this as permission to feel good about myself, and that would feel good because seeing myself as worthy aligns with the perspective of my inner being, who knows I am always worthy. So are you hinting that I only enjoy receiving attention from guys I deem to be good enough to make me feel worthy?

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  • Emma Question #14


    Today I have been thinking about why I don't feel good when I receive messages off guys who I believe are below my standards. I think it is because I don't like what it is reflecting back to me; what it means. I believe I am a high quality girl (or maybe I want to believe that) so I believe I deserve high quality guys messaging me. I like the idea of being with a high quality, well-liked guy. Then I would be like "see! I am good!". It's like I want all the other well-liked people in the world to accept me.

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  • Emma Question #15


    I feel like I am really starting to get now that my love life is just a reflection of how I feel about myself. I now see that it is ridiculous that I have been feeling not got enough and I want to stop that. How can to work to change this? Is it just with practice? Faking it 'til I make it? Imagining what being confident and secure would feel like and practicing that feeling?

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  • Emma Question #16


    My Law of Attraction coach says the universe will show us what we are willing to settle for, and that if we stop settling for things that aren't really what we want, the universe will be able to bring in things that are actually what we want. I have recently watched videos of two other coaches (who I resonate with) say something similar. What's your take on this idea?

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  • Emma Question #17


    Earlier in the year, I put an intention out there to discover a diet or way of eating that I really believe will work for me, and that is easy for me to implement and stick to. The whole time I had been practicing loving my body the way it was also. I was still eating foods I perceived as bad for me often though, like cakes and desserts and stuff. But in the middle of the year, 3 weeks before my friend's wedding, I decided I HAD to eat healthy to make sure I fitted into my bridesmaid dress.

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  • Emma Question #18


    I have still been trying to practise fully accepting myself the way I am, but I haven't fully got there yet. When I strip away my appearance and outside achievements and just imagine a guy liking me for the person I am, I find this hard to believe. I keep seeing myself as a boring and dull person. I know these thoughts aren't true and try to soften them by saying things to myself like - "How could I even have friends who want to hang out with me if I was a dull and boring person?" But I'm still finding it hard to see myself from another perspective. Can you offer me some advice on how to start seeing myself as awesome for just being me?

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  • Emma Question #19


    Thanks for your last answer. I think it is really starting to click for me now. By me thinking that I am somehow not good enough, I am saying that there is a right and wrong way to be, and that is not the case, as everything is right. Everybody is right as their unique selves and can attract to them people who appreciate them as they are. I think I'm really starting to understand now that my perception of how people view me is only a reflection of how I view myself.

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  • Emma Question #20


    This last week I have been experiencing something weird. I keep getting head spins, particularly when I move my head while laying down. It's weird because this is something I have never experienced before (except maybe when drunk lol). So I'm guessing it must be pointing out some sort of resistance I have going on. Any hints for me on what it could be?

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  • Emma Question #21


    In one of your answers to someone else, you wrote that our inner beings have their own inner being who also has an inner being and so forth. I was just wondering if this also goes the other way - am I the inner being to some other "lower" form of consciousness of me? Like the me in my dreams or something?

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  • Emma Question #22


    I want to ask about the benefits of visualization. I know that our only job is to feel good, and that our inner beings know exactly what our desires are so we do not have to tell the universe that. But does visualizing the final outcome of a desire help it to move along faster since you are practicing the vibration of it?

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  • Emma Question #23


    I know certain conditions in the body point to certain types of resistance within us. I was just wondering what the resistance is that causes sore toes and ingrown toenails? I'm thinking fear of moving forward, or resistance to growth, something like that? What's the best way to figure these sort of things out?

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  • Emma Question #24


    I think the main thing I have been working on and trying to manifest for years is a relationship. I have just been really wanting to find the next answer and clear all of my blocks to it. I guess me believing I have lots of blocks to clear around this is a limiting belief in itself? Anyway, I have been thinking about it more today and realise I just want it to manifest as soon as possible so I can feel better about myself and relax. I just feel very inadequate for being single and because of the fact I have never been in a committed relationship.

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  • Emma Question #25


    Ok - so all our reality is that we are experiencing is a reflection of our own beliefs. If our beliefs change, our reality changes to match. We have desires and the universe is working to mold us into people with the beliefs necessary to be a match to what we desire. But now that I know all of this, can I reach a level of being able to bypass some of the molding process and move straight to the beneficial belief?

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  • Emma Question #26


    Sometimes when I meditate, my head and fingers start moving around. It's not involuntary or anything, but it just feels like the right thing to do. I'm interested to know what this means? Is it my body adjusting to the higher vibration or something?

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  • Emma Question #27


    I really love astrology. Reading my horoscopes, learning about the different transits and aspects of the planets. What's your take on astrology?

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  • Emma Question #28


    I had something happen today that caused a big emotional response within me! A lady at work stopped to have a chat to me while I was listening to a podcast, and she asked which one I was listening to. Since I was put on the spot and couldn't think of any other podcast to lie about, I blurted out the truth and said I was listening to the Teachings of Joshua. She then presumed that it was something biblical and thought I was religious! So I was very embarrassed about that and said: no, no, its not like that, I hate religion!

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  • Emma Question #29


    I've got more of a positive story from today (compared to my last question) that I want to share with you! Today while I was working, I was thinking about how I have not been sent on any technical training and that I should tell my boss that this makes me feel disappointed and unsupported. But then I caught myself and asked: "is this what you want? What you want to manifest more of? Feeling disappointed and unsupported? No. Well let's stop telling this story and focus on how you actually want to feel."

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  • Emma Question #30


    Do people have to be somewhat consciously aware of a desire before they can manifest it? I have heard Abraham say that when we realise a desire, we actually received the desire, because we reached a vibrational level of being able to receive it. And that once we receive it, law of attraction has amassed everything in place to bring this desire to us.

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  • Emma Question #31


    In your last answer you said we have two types of desires: that which we truly desire and that which we think we desire. I am now wondering - does our inner being focus on both of these types of desire for us and help us to manifest both? Or does it only focus on our true desires and we are left on our own to focus on and bring about desires we just think we want?

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  • Emma Question #32


    I always feel really bad about killing spiders and other insects and try to avoid it as much as possible. But sometimes I have just get rid of them! It always makes me feel really guilty for killing a spider just because I'm scared of it. But I have been thinking, did the spider come into my awareness because it wanted to die? So I am therefore actually doing it a favour?

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  • Emma Question #33


    I was wondering if you could talk to me a bit about procrastination. I find when I am at home on my time off, all I want to do is lay around and nap all day. I have things I need to do like dishes, tidying, laundry, cooking, etc. but I just procrastinate from these things and sit on the couch all day. But while I am lazing around I am not even enjoying it properly because there is always this background guilt! I'd like to be a person who is super energetic during the day and just wants to get things done. What's your perspective on this?

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  • Emma Question #34


    I always hear people saying that it is important to actually feel your emotions fully. To admit to yourself how you really feel and let it be ok that you feel that way. Something I came across tonight was someone saying that the emotions you resist, persist. That you need to feel them to fully get through them or the same ones will just keep manifesting. I feel like I have been resisting certain emotions, I feel bad and then I am like "nope that's not good," and try to think about something better. But then is feeling that emotion practicing it and bringing more of it to you; or is not feeling the emotion and trying to move straight to a better story causing the emotion to be suppressed within you and therefore keep manifesting? How does this fit in with your teachings?

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  • Emma Question #35


    I have oracle cards that I use sometimes. But I have always wondered, it is really getting guidance from the universe or is it just pulling cards that reflect our own current beliefs & vibration on the question asked?

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  • Emma Question #36


    I have a situation unfolding at the moment where a guy I am kind of interested in is sending me daily snapchats back and forth. Not direct messages to me but general life snapchats. A part of me is saying Emma, this is ridiculous, why are you excited by a guy who can't even be bothered to send you a proper message. But then the other part of me thinks I should just go along with this and sees how it plays out. I guess I am attaching to specific outcomes again and wanting to change someone's else's behavior rather than accepting things the way they are. Thoughts?

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  • Emma Question #37


    I am finding myself getting a lot of juice out of this snapchat guy situation. It brings up a lot of insecurities for me to address! Whenever I sense any slight rejection, I can feel myself wanting to close off. To go cold and retreat, to protect my ego. But I am noticing this now and trying to stay open and loving!

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  • Emma Question #38


    I've had a realization lately. When I catch myself thinking negative thoughts about someone, I realise what it is triggered by. It is usually me feeling insecure, perceiving rejection from the person, feeling threatened by the person, or jealousy. So I think negative things about the person to make myself feel better. I'm really glad I have noticed this now and can turn it around.

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  • Emma Question #39


    I have had another realization recently. I have realised that when I experience a negative manifestation event, I try to work out where I went wrong to cause it to happen. That means I am labeling the event as wrong and trying to work out how to prevent it from happening again. That's not very allowing! Positive focus can pull us into a manifestation event in order for us to reach the next step, right?

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  • Emma Question #40


    Feeling frustrated tonight. The snapchat guy posted a pic with another girl in it. So it tells me that obviously he is talking to other girls, but can't be bothered to message me. So I'm done with this shit! It has made me feel like saying: you know what? I am done with guys. I need to give up for a while and focus on cultivating my own self-love. This idea sounds kind of empowering, but since the thought has come from a low-vibrational place, can I trust it?

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  • Emma Question #41


    I definitely didn't ignore the fact that me seeing that picture was a manifestation event, and I journaled about it the next night. I think writing my limiting beliefs out from scratch again will be good though and help me go a bit deeper!

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  • Emma Question #42


    In my last answer, you said that it is my reaction to things in the moment that creates my reality. As I keep on analyzing manifestation events and finding better perspectives, will I get better at reacting positively to things in the moment? Is it just momentum that has to slowly turn around?

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  • Emma Question #43


    I had a manifestation event today and I tried my best to react positively. A guy at work said to me "so have you got yourself a boyfriend yet?" And when I replied "no" he said "are you getting close?" And I replied "ummm not really" lol. The feeling I defaulted to after this was feeling inadequate for not having a boyfriend and worrying that this guy will think something is wrong with me. So I did my best to analyse this in my head and switch back to a better-feeling perspective. I must say that I find it harder to do in my head because I get distracted and start thinking about other things, but when I write it out I am able to focus better.

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  • Emma Question #44


    It happened again! Today a lady asked me if I got myself a boyfriend over Christmas and then told me both her daughters did. I dipped into feeling inadequate again briefly, and was disappointed because something I want seems to happen so easily and frequently for other people, but not me. Then I felt frustrated with myself for feeling like this again! I thought the manifestation event yesterday and my subsequent analysis helped to clear this up, but its popping up again the next day! What does it mean if it keeps popping up? That I didn't clear my limiting beliefs properly? Or there are more fears I didn't recognise yesterday? Or is it just a test to see how I would react this time?

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  • Emma Question #45


    I have noticed that whenever I get to a place of feeling happy, excited and trusting in the universe, when my vibration gets quite high and I'm just walking around smiling to myself, a couple of days later it's like BAM - I discover a whole new layer of limiting beliefs and fears to work through. Is this just how the process always works?

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  • Emma Question #46


    In your last answer you said there are two paths to choose from after a manifestation event - creation of a desire or expanding joyously. I am just wondering, if you take the expanding joyously path, are desires still created??

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  • Emma Question #47


    I want to ask you about the emotion of embarrassment. Yesterday I had a random embarrassing moment happen at work. A plumber barged into my ensuite while I was sitting on the toilet. The door had somehow not locked properly. I felt intense embarrassment after this, which is a negative emotion so therefore there is a fear here for me to uncover. I'm not really sure what it is though? I think it's pretty normal to feel embarrassed after that! What is the message for me behind this manifestation event?

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  • Emma Question #48


    The one person who triggers me more than my mother is my sister. She recently was really rude to me so I haven't messaged her in a few days. She has always been really rude to me, making me feel wrong for everything I do, be or say. I now realize she is just acting as s mirror for me, and is giving me a taste of how mean I have been to myself.

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  • Emma Question #49


    Just wanted to give you an update on the sister situation. I have already been presented with a chance to practice reacting in a different way! Tonight she rang me up and asked if I wanted to have take away dinner with her and my other sister. So they both came around to my house. Instead of acting distant towards her like I might have a few days ago when I was still angry, I let go of that and acted normal, in a happy, loving, accepting way. We had a nice dinner, made each other laugh a fair bit, and just had a nice night! So bring on this family trip away tomorrow - I'm looking forward for more practice at this :)

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  • Emma Question #50


    So since I have lost a fair bit of weight now, I have started to have a lot of people notice and make comments about it. I have had a few guys at work ask me if I have lost weight, and then tell me I look good. This is a complement and should make me feel good, but it doesn't! It makes me feel bad because I think: shit - they must have thought I was really fat before I lost weight. So then I just feel shame for the way I used to be. I know this is not how I want to feel, and I am scared that feeling bad about my past self like this might make me manifest more bad feeling things, like gaining weight back!

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  • Emma Question #51


    There is this guy at work who me and my other work friend always bitch about. I guess it's a way we bond, but I'm worried what message it's sending in my vibration. Our boss actually really likes this guy and talks about how good he is all the time, and I guess it makes me feel threatened? It's like there is some sort of competition I am wanting to win. When I notice this, I tell myself that my boss or this guy have no power to create in my reality and I am responsible for my own success, and someone else's success doesn't limit mine; but it keeps coming up so I guess I have more stuff to clear around this!

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  • Emma Question #52


    Tonight I noticed a cleaning product leaking everywhere on my kitchen bench where I had left it and spilling all over my floor. It got all over a gift card I bought my friend as a gift for her wedding tomorrow and also my wallet. Then, as I was trying to clean it up I somehow knocked over my big expensive jar of organic coconut oil and it fell to the floor and smashed - glass everywhere. What's going on for me to manifest that? My sister messaged me earlier telling me she was crying because she dropped her new iPhone she had just bought today and it smashed. I felt so sad for her. Could me feeling that emotion cause me to manifest my own mishaps tonight?

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  • Emma Question #53


    Sometimes I find myself in situations where I am with a group of people, sitting at a table for example, and there is an awkward silence. I feel so uncomfortable in these moments and want to start more conversation, but I can never think of anything to say. Then I feel like the other people will be judging me for being quiet and not saying anything. What can I do in this sort of situation?

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  • Emma Question #54


    I hear "rise of the divine feminine" being talked about a lot lately. Can you please speak to me about this? What is the difference between feminine and masculine energies? Why is there a difference when we all come from the same source? Are both equally as powerful? Why does there appear to be more women interested in this Joshua stuff than men?

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  • Emma Question #55


    If our inner being is focusing on everything we want and growing a large amount of moment towards these things, how are we able to go against such a strong pull with our negative focus? Wouldn't it be strong enough to just carry us forward anyway?

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  • Emma Question #56


    Can you please speak to me about the purpose of sleep? Is it to give us a rest from focusing in resistance? If you meditate more would you need less sleep?

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  • Emma Question #57


    I am slowly starting to trust that the universe can bring me what I want more and more! Lately, I have been really wanting to get a MacBook Pro so I have been visualizing already having one. Today a guy at work asked me if I want to buy a ticket for a raffle, and all 5 prizes are apple products. The first prize is an iMac. I thought "oooh I'd love one of those" and got excited about the idea of winning. Then as I was thinking about it later I realised this is "driftwood" for my manifestation of a MacBook (because an iMac would be just as exciting).

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  • Emma Question #58


    The last few days I have been thinking a lot about my feelings of insecurity around my perceived lack of charisma. I think it all stems from being a kid, when I was told I was quiet, to shy, or "she doesn't talk". Obviously I do talk, but I just used to be quiet around people I didn't know. Anyway, I saw this as a bad thing and felt bad about it. Like I was supposed to be different to make people happy. So when I'm around people at work just being my quiet self, I feel like they are judging me for not chatting enough to them.

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  • Emma Question #59


    I have thought/read a lot about how everything I experience is just a reflection of my own vibration the last couple of days and I think my understanding of it has reached another level. I see myself as just being in a white room and my vibration is a projector, projecting everything onto the walls, creating my reality. It's all just an illusion, there isn't actually a world out there behind what I can see, and as I move around I am really just staying in this same white room but experiencing the feeling of moving through a world.

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  • Emma Question #60


    The last two nights I have dreamt that my dad died. It's a horrible feeling in the dream, like my worst nightmare has come true. What's the deal with that? Why do we have bad dreams?

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  • Emma Question #61


    I always hear things such as; "everything happens for a reason, everything is always working out for you, etc. But the way I see it, if something you perceive as bad happens, it is just a neutral, mechanical reflection of your own focus and vibration. Things aren't really working out for you until you change your focus." Can you please expand on this?

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  • Emma Question #62


    I have decided to just pretend I am already with my soulmate. I have been asking myself how this would feel and just trying to feel that way now. I realised that when I have this, I won't care about other guys. I won't get excited if I see hot guys at work for example. So I'm thinking I am just going to act like I am in a relationship now, not like a single girl. I am not going to care about other guys because I am already with my soulmate (vibrationally anyway). Is this detrimental at all, or is it in alignment with the laws of the universe and what I want?

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  • Emma Question #63


    How can we stop focusing on lack? I can imagine how it feels to already have the things that I want, but then I look at my reality to check if things are changing and get disappointed when they're not. It's hard to ignore current reality, and to trust that things are going to change when we haven't seen any progress.

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  • Emma Question #64


    I can accept that I need to become a vibrational match with my ideal partner before meeting him. That's ok. But what I have an issue with is my love life being so quiet in the meantime! I'm so sick of having such a quiet love life. I want to have fun experiences with guys and date someone casually on the way to meeting my match. Surely I can manifest this??

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  • Emma Question #65


    In response to your last answer, I can see that I do think 50 steps ahead and it would benefit me to stop doing that. But I don't want to let go of all standards. It's not just about what other people think of me, even if no one knew who I was dating, I still wouldn't want to be with a guy I'm repulsed by or get creepy vibes from. I'd rather be single than do that!! And also, I don't like the idea of asking guys out for coffee or whatever. I want them to ask me. It's quite a strong belief I have now that guys are turned off by girls who do that and this belief has been reflected back to me a few times in my own experiences. But I don't even want to change the belief because I just like the idea of a guy making the first move, it's just what I desire!

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  • Emma Question #66


    Sometimes I feel like I get drained of energy when hanging around people, and then I need time all to myself to recharge. But since other people can't create in my reality, they can't drain me of energy. I am draining myself of energy. So how am I doing this?

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  • Emma Question #67


    I really want to move to the city soon and have been telling everyone I know that I'm doing it. The problem is though, I'm lacking motivation to clean up my house and stuff. The thought of all the things I have to do is overwhelming and I have just been procrastinating a lot and doing nothing. Is this one of those situations where I just need to push through the fear?

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  • Emma Question #68


    I have been thinking about the idea of taking action towards things tonight. I have heard Mike Dooley say that you can have the GPS turned on and telling you where to go (the universe leading the way), but you won't move until you decide to put the car into gear (take some sort of small action in the general direction of what you want). I understand that you have to be vibrationally aligned to take action. But when I think back to all of the notable things I have achieved in my life, it took me pushing through a bit of fear and taking action towards these things, and then everything just worked out.

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  • Emma Question #69


    When I say to myself: "imagine if you met your dream guy this year" - a negative feeling pops up. I have been trying to sort out for a while what it's about. I feel like, intuitively, it's the last block I have to clear. Tonight, I decided to just sit with the feeling and feel it so that it gets bigger and will attract thoughts in that will let me know what it is actually about. I'm not sure if I have gotten to the root of if yet, but one thing that popped up was my angst towards my friends getting in relationships when I was a few years younger. I felt negative emotion around that because it took my friends away from me and also meant less fun for me as they weren't available as much to go out anymore. So I'm wondering if I somehow transferred that to mean if I got in a relationship it equals less fun and loss of friends. What did you think? Any other tips for getting to the bottom of a negative emotion you're just not sure about?

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  • Emma Question #70


    Thank you for your last answer, confidence is something I have been thinking about and working on so much lately. I'm definitely improving!

    I'm just curious about something though. Why is it that other insecure girls out there attract in relationships that reflect their insecurities back to them, yet I attract no relationships to reflect mine? Like, why haven't I attracted in a boyfriend who makes me feel insecure? Not that I would want this or prefer to be in a crappy relationship over being single, but I'm just curious.

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  • Emma Question #71


    Whenever I read answers from you where it appears you are telling me I need to loosen up on my idea of the type of guy I want, I feel negative emotion. I feel like you are telling me I am being unreasonable for wanting a guy who makes me feel a certain way, and that I have to try and force myself to be with guys who just feel "meh" to me. That just doesn't sit well with me.

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  • Emma Question #72


    I'm still feeling a lot of resistance reading these answers. When you said about going on a date with a guy in order to meet someone else, it didn't feel good to me. If a guy asked me on a date and I really didn't feel interested in him or inspired to go, but I decide to just go anyway purely because this guy could introduce me to other guys - I think that would be a horrible thing to do to the guy.

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  • Emma Question #73


    I have been thinking about your last answer where you talked about the trend I have of only liking guys who don't like me back, and not liking guys who do like me. I guess a reason for that would be my own self worth, not seeing myself as good enough, so thinking there is something wrong with a guy for liking me. Maybe it's because I look at the type of guy I want and presume he would be only in to certain types of girls, and I don't see myself as good as those girls. And then when a guy comes along and seems excited by me, I presume they must have pretty low standards and therefore not what I'm looking for. But I feel like that is the old me now anyway. I'm getting more confident in myself everyday! Practicing seeing myself as good enough for anyone I want, and visualizing what that would look like, and it's starting to feel more normal and believable now.

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  • Emma Question #74


    I seem to have psychic dreams about my friends being pregnant. It's happened to me twice now, where I have a dream that a friend is newly pregnant, and then I find out that they actually are. I have also predicated the sex of two babies from my dreams too. Why do I only have psychic dreams about babies? How can I tell if a dream is psychic or not?

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  • Emma Question #75


    I finally took some more action towards my goal of moving to the city, by having some property managers come look through my place and tell me how much they think I could rent it out for. Now that I've done this, it feels more real and I have more fear coming up.

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  • Emma Question #76


    Following on from your last answer, I have a few steps that I feel like come next in my move to the city. There is a house up the street from mine that is also 3 bedroom 2 bathroom that has just been put on the market, and I will watch to see how quickly it gets rented out. Then I can gauge if people are happy to pay that price for a house like that. The property manager thought my house should go on the market for a little bit less than that one, but I think it deserves the same amount. So I can watch what happens there while I'm at work for the next two weeks.

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  • Emma Question #77


    For a while now, I have wanted to be able to channel. Sometimes I do feel like I might be slightly channeling when I am writing. But I guess I always thought it was something I would be suddenly struck with, I would hear these voices in my head and just simply write down what I hear. I didn't think I would actually have to go to the effort of thinking thoughts myself if that makes sense lol. But now I am thinking - maybe channeling does feel like my own thoughts and sound like my own voice. So I have decided to just try it often, meditate and and then sit down and write about whatever topic is on my mind at the time. As I do this more consistently, maybe I will grow in confidence around channeling and then be able to receive clearer, higher vibrational messages?

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  • Emma Question #78


    Here is one of my attempts at channeling. It's sort of embarrassing to share because I still half feel like it's stuff I made up myself rather than channeled - but it felt good while I was writing it and good for me to read personally, so guess that's all that counts!

    Everything is love. Pushing something away is the absence of love. Everything is one, that's why everything is love. Love is including something, accepting something, and that's why it feels so good, because everything is one. Pushing something away feels bad because it is separation. And nothing is really separate. So accept everything.

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  • Emma Question #79


    With all of the news lately about nuclear bombs and war threats, I have felt some fear. My default reaction to that sort of stuff is to feel anxiety and fear and to treat it as something outside of myself that I can't control and that I could fall victim to. So now I am recognizing this and analyzing.

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  • Emma Question #80


    As you suggested at the end of your last answer, I tried to channel my own answer about all of the negative stuff I have been seeing on TV and this is what I came up with:

    You are not a match to mass destruction personally in your reality. Your vibration is too high for that! There are people who are a match to that sort of thing, who chose to explore it, and that's ok. You did not. You are in a different reality. Can you imagine the lower vibration you would need to have to be a match to that? It's just not possible for you from where you are right now. Even the people in your life who do not know about law of attraction are not a match to it, their vibration is too high. And yours is even higher!

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  • Emma Question #81


    I guess with the channeling thing, i fell like I have a bit of "Imposter syndrome". I worry that the stuff I write is just re-wording other things I have read, so basically plagiarism. And for the bits I haven't really heard before, I worry that I am just making up something that sounds good in theory, but may not actually be true at all!

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  • Emma Question #82


    I think my persona is definitely changing. These last couple of days I have felt really good and have just been beaming love at everyone at work. I am starting to chat to people at work more, now that I am not as worried about how I will be perceived. I am giving love to people and not worrying if it will be taken well or rejected because I know that they are all beings of love too and any rejection is just fear.

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  • Emma Question #83


    I have been thinking about a guy I used to date. I keep having dreams about him too. I was on and off with him for a few years, I really liked him, but he would always be hot and cold. I haven't even spoken to him in 3 years. But the thing was, I didn't unconditionally accept him. I thought I was wrong for even liking him, but I just did. I thought it reflected badly on me for liking him, because he was a bit of a bad guy, class clown, etc. And this belief was reflected back to me by people saying to me why do you like him, you can do so much better.

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  • Emma Question #84


    Ok, now I am feeling the urge to message him. I feel like he probably thinks I disapprove of him, so would like to send a message so he knows I don't. My sister found an old photo of him and I from like 8 years ago and sent that to me a couple of months ago (coincidence? Probably not), I had totally forgot that pic existed. So now it is conveniently saved in my phone, so I was thinking of sending it to him and saying hey look what I found.

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  • Emma Question #85


    So I ended up sending the message and it went well! I think he really liked that I got in contact with him again and we had a good chat. It's nice to have confirmation that I can trust my inner guidance! But now he has asked to catch up for a drink and I said yes! So have no idea where all this is going or where I want it to go but once again I guess I'll just roll with it.

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  • Emma Question #86


    So I have been doing exactly what you told me not to do and thinking 20 steps ahead and freaking myself out. I'm not worried about what he will think of me - I already sense that he will be pretty impressed by me just being myself, and I know my confidence in myself and acceptance of him for who he is will make him feel good being around me. What I'm worrying about is if we ended up seeing each other again, would I just be settling for someone who is here right now and missing out on something way better? Would I be unhappy? Does his life fit into my dream life? What will other people think? I guess my mind going so far into the future and causing me to feel anxiety is not a very good thing!

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  • Emma Question #87


    Ok so now I've reached the place of being excited for this drink date. But I am now worrying - when is it going to happen? We never actually made the plans, he just said when he's back down here for work (which is now). The last thing he said was that he looks forward to it. So it's irrational of me to worry he'll just forget or never make the plans, but that is where my mind is going now. I want him to message me and make the plans, and I'm worried that he won't, I'm scared of being disappointed. I guess I am attaching to an outcome now!!

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  • Emma Question #88


    Ok, I can totally see how I manifested this situation to show me how wacky my energy gets and to practise turning this around. I see now that any time I have been rejected in the past it has been to do with my own weird energy and there has never actually been anything wrong with me. If he doesn't follow through with the drinks, that's actually a pretty weird thing to happen and it's just caused by my weird energy. I'm relaxing a bit now knowing that this is just another learning step for me to get my energy sorted and that if I do catch up with him or I don't, it will be the right thing either way.

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  • Emma Question #89


    In your last answer you said I fear acceptance and adoration. Just wondering if you could expand on this?

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  • Emma Question #90


    I have had another realisation recently. It's around the idea that the universe will show you what you are willing to settle for. Me manifesting a guy not following through with his plans to catch up is showing me that I am willing to settle for a guy who doesn't show up for me like I desire. The fact that I manifested this and was willing to settle for this sort of thing is a reflection of my own self worth. If my self worth was higher, I would believe I was totally worthy of guys showing up for me and really making an effort with me, and I would not settle for anything less, but probably wouldn't manifest anything less anyway.

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  • Emma Question #91


    Well, I have reached the end of my 6 months in the one-on-one program! I know I have changed so much in myself these past few months. From not thinking I was good enough to now knowing that that's ridiculous and I am awesome! Understanding how the universe works better, trusting the universe and knowing that I can find my own answers from within.

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