Kyla Question #54

 

Joshua,

So I'm at this hotel, having an incredible time with the person I'm with. Yesterday morning I went outside, feeling quite attractive, and I noticed a man noticing me. When I came back inside, that man was in the lobby and he followed me into the elevator.

On the ride up, he asked me why I was here at the hotel, if I was in town for a conference or something. I told him it was a weekend getaway. As we got to our floor, he asked if I was here by myself and I said no. He said, "Oh...married? Boyfriend?" I smiled and said, "Friend." then told him to have a good day and headed for my room.

A few minutes later, the room phone rang and I answered it. It was RJ, from the elevator, wanting to borrow my phone charger. It was bizarre, but I agreed to let him borrow it. He came to the door, I gave him my charger, and told him to just leave it by the door when he was done with it.

We went to lunch, came back to the hotel a couple hours later, and my charger wasn't on the door. Then the phone rang, RJ again saying he'd be up in a minute with my charger. Thirty minutes later, he still hadn't come.

I went outside, and apparently he was in the lobby saw me through the doors, and stuck his head out. I said "Hey, can I get my charger back?" He said he'd go grab it and be right back. My friend called, so I was outside for quite a while, and he never came back. When I finally went inside, he was sitting in a chair in the lobby, talking on his phone, no phone charger in sight. I walked up to him and asked him again for my charger. He said he'd bring it right up.

By that point I'd begun to get annoyed. I recognized that this was a manifestation event, but I couldn't figure it out. I shook it off, headed up to my room, and tried to forget about him and my phone charger.

Here I am, the next day, still no phone charger. What is the point of this? I've made peace with the fact that I may be buying a new charger. I know I can afford it, and maybe I'll even meet someone amazing at Best Buy.

It's all happening for me. But why? Can't wait to read your answer.

With love,
Kyla


Dear Kyla,

Everything that is happening for you occurs based on your vibrational offering. Your frequency is set on a certain vibration and that vibration creates the world in which you observe certain things. You are tuned to certain specific events, specific people, and specific observations. For instance, if your vibration was not emitting at that exact frequency, you would have not gone to the lobby at the time you did, you would not have noticed RJ and he could not have noticed you. But your vibration was an exact match and what happened occurred for you based on that vibrational offering.

So what happened? You felt attractive and you noticed a man noticing you. You attracted him and he came to you based on your vibrational offering. Once he noticed you, there was a wobble in your vibration. Your vibration changed and reverted back to an older frequency. You don't trust men and this led to you not being able to trust RJ. Your beliefs (limiting) where reflected back you you by this manifestation.

The annoyance you felt was simply "Here it goes again. Another man who I cannot trust." It felt odd given the wonderful time you were having. Notice that what you said to RJ in the elevator wasn't the entire truth. You could have said so many different things but due to your beliefs you chose those words and this event played out as it did. You cannot trust men.

Having gone through this event you realized that it was not such a big deal, you don't need to trust him, you didn't do anything wrong, and you can always get another charger. This was just a little manifestation event allowing you to see that you had a little wobble in your vibration when you felt he was being inappropriate by following you into the elevator, by talking to you, by asking you to borrow your charger, and by not returning your charger as promised. Your mistrust in men and your allowing him to get close, annoyed you. RJ did not annoy you, you annoyed yourself. You felt wrong. You made yourself feel wrong. That's what was so annoying. However, you did nothing wrong.

Imagine doing that all over again. Knowing what you now understand from the event, how would you have handled it differently? Keep in mind that this was a manifestation event that needed to play itself out so nothing could have gone differently since it was based on your specific vibrational signal. But, if it could have been different, what would you have done differently?

Joshua

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