Kyla Question #30

 

Joshua,

Thank you for your response to my last question. I'm excited to implement your suggestions when the boys get back from their dad's.

I don't really have a question, mostly just wanted to send a huge THANK YOU for all of your guidance. The improvements to my quality of life are remarkable.

Today was my youngest son's birthday, and also the day their dad picks them up, so my ex and I had a little birthday party for him at the park. I was in awe at how easy and comfortable it was. We are in the midst of the divorce process, and yet we were able to sit down and eat cake together and sing to our son, all with no fear or awkwardness or discomfort whatsoever (at least on my part).

It's incredible. Three months ago I never would've felt able to do such a thing. I would've refused to make eye contact or give him any of my energy. I would've been afraid of him taking something I said or did out of context, and then using it against me. But, instead, we laughed and made jokes, and it almost felt like old times (the good ones).

I love being armed with the knowledge that I'm writing this script. For the first time since I left my marriage, I feel hopeful about how the next 16 years (and beyond) will go. And what a gift that is, for me and for my kids. So seriously...thank you.

With love,
Kyla


Dear Kyla,

Do not thank us, thank yourself. All we did was present a different perspective. It was you who chose to raise your own vibration to a level where you attracted this information and incorporated it into your life. You did it all. We merely responded to your asking. You attracted us.

It is interesting to see how your life can improve so dramatically simply by choosing another more empowering perspective. The difference between a perspective based in fear and one based in love is vast. In the past you were unconsciously choosing the fear-based perspective in reaction to conditions your believed were bad or wrong. Now you are choosing to not react, rather to look at it from the empowering perspective that this is all for you. You created it all for the purpose of expansion. Now that you have expanded as a result of this experience with your ex, you can move on to the next chapter in your life.

The new chapter has the potential to bring up fear, however, you are now prepared to deal with that irrational fear. You will be able to stop and think before you choose a limiting perspective. You will confront your fears realizing they are false. You will feel exhilaration as you do this. The more fears you confront, the more exhilarated you will feel and your life will magically unfold in ways beyond anything you could imagine.

Remember most of all that you are eternally linked with everyone you know, including your ex. He came here to perform this dance with you because you both wanted the expansion the dynamics of this relationship would offer. Your relationship will continue to unfold, but as long as you have gained the expansion it provided, you need not face contrast in this area again. It is up to you to move on to other areas of expansion and interest. When you transition to the nonphysical and see him as he truly is, you'll fall in love with him all over again and you'll thank him for everything he did while you were physical together.

Joshua

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