Kate Question #42

 

Dear Joshua,

Yesterday, I was walking home (in my neighborhood) when I saw, half a block away, this client I had previously mentioned to you, walking with his daughters toward me (going to the park I imagine). My reaction (he hadn't seen me, I'm hoping) was that after a split moment's hesitation, I turned up the street I was next to rather than crossing their path. Why? In part because I was afraid of not having much to say to him and coming off as overzealous, in part, because I didn't want to make him uncomfortable, or myself.

But now, I sort of regret having done that, because I could have met his daughters, because it could have been a two minute interaction, because it probably won't happen again. It's a pity I did that. I suppose I followed my instinct, there is no wrong - I let him be in the vibration he was in without interrupting that with my energy and I appreciate that the timing was good enough for me to turn off. But why? Nothing bigger than just a generally shyness, right? And not wanting to disturb someone (or be disturbed).

With appreciation
Kate


Dear Kate,

When you become aware of what is really happening in the moment, you will realize that the universe has set up these situations for you. You will realize that when something serendipitous happens, it is for you, it is for your higher good. The universe coordinates everything. You can either go along with it, trusting that the event is being orchestrated to bring you what you want, or you can resist it out of fear. How often have you seen this man on the street in a situation like this? Doesn't it seem strange? Isn't it such a coincidence? There are no coincidences. These things are specifically set up to move you further along your path to receiving all that you want. But it's okay. When you miss one opportunity, the universe goes to work to bring you many, many more.

When you saw him and felt fear (being afraid of not having anything to say, fearing that you would be an interruption, fearing that you would spoil the mood) that was your indication that you were not looking at this manifestation event from a perspective that serves who you really are or what you really want. You have already stated in your own words that you love this client and you would love to have more just like him. The universe is responding to what you want by placing him in your path. The universe is responding to what he wants by placing you in his path. The universe is bringing you together for two very important reasons. You both gain something from the other.

Your doubts that you would have anything to say can be set aside as long as you are in the state of allowing and realize that you have been brought together for a purpose. You see, you do not need to think of anything to say. There is a reason you were brought together and so the words needed to create the manifestation you desire will come to you. If you were to see him on the street, recognize that this is a serendipitous rendezvous, and know that there is a purpose to this chance meeting and you were going to trust that it is right, the universe would fill you with all the words you needed, all the clarity of connection and also the ability to listen to what he has to say. You do not have to preform, all you have to do is go with the flow of the moment and the words will come.

It is extremely important that you have become aware of this situation and have asked a question about it. It means you understood that your fear was out of alignment with what you have already learned in your short time with us. It was a powerful manifestation event and you were able to stop and analyze it. This is very good indeed. We are extremely pleased. Now, when something like this happens next time, you'll be prepared. You notice the fear, you'll stop and analyze it, (this time in the moment it is occurring) and you'll realize that the fear is false and the situation has been designed to bring you into alignment with what you want.

There is nothing to fear. You will make great strides once you handle your fear.

Joshua

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