Dear Joshua,
How can I boost my beliefs in my own worthiness, boost my self-confidence? Does it come through working on limiting beliefs? Affirmations? Good deeds? Just continuing to talk with you? Truly, your words have already helped immensely to give me a clearer more powerful view of myself (and others!). My primary desire now is to drive in to me my knowing of my worthiness, have a strong high level of self-confidence.
What your words have also given me is the awareness that one person is not more/less intelligent, skilled, lucky etc but it is simply about our self confidence and beliefs - and therefore, comparing and judgment become pointless.... That feels good (It doesn't mean I won't go back there soon and quickly, but maybe not ...).
With love and gratitude,
Kate
Dear Kate,
As you begin to learn how the universe and physical reality really work, your sense of worthiness will grow. When you realize that you came from nonphysical as a being of pure love to this physical environment for the fun, adventure and expansion of it, you will come to understand that you are the one who chose all of this. This world that you've created was created by you for your personal and individual expansion. Everything that happens in this world, your world, happens for your personal expansion. You are the center of your universe, you are completely unique, you are in control of it all, you can think any thought you like, you have free will, therefore you are worthy.
There's nothing more to it than that. You've just forgotten how worthy you really are. You've just been influenced to think you might not be that worthy. You've simply began a habit of comparing yourself to others. But when you do that, you are comparing yourself to a fictionalized version of others. You can't know what they are thinking or feeling. You can't know their experience of life. You are simply making all up based on the facade they are putting out there. It is not real because you can't possibly know what's going on beneath the surface.
What is self-confidence? It's knowing that you are loved and supported in every moment by a force that creates worlds. It's knowing that you can never fail. It's knowing that the only thing that really mattes is how you feel and therefore your only work is to feel good.
Imagine living life as if you were truly supported and you could never fail. Imagine living life knowing that every single thing that happened was for your benefit even if it seemed like a setback at the time. Imagine being able to relentlessly pursue your own unique interests which would lead you to your passions in life. Imagine delving deeply into those passions so that you lost track of time. Imagine living in that kind of blissful state of being. This is what it is to be self-confident.
Love is the absence of fear. As you reduce your fears, though analysis whenever you feel negative emotion, you move towards love. When you peel away the minor fears which are irrational and have faith that you are creating the reality you desire through your attention to what is wanted, you move toward who you really are. This is your journey. Bring energy to every action, every thought and every word. Find the positive aspects in everything and everyone. Lean into your life without fear and you will see incredible results. Do not try to escape that which you do not like, rather find a way to love it. This is how you radically change your approach to life and this is how you will receive all that you want.
Joshua
