Kate Question #11

 

Dear Joshua,

You have told me that my vibration is made up of a mix of things (my own conscious or unconscious thoughts, my inner being, source etc)... and that everything in this moment is perfect and I don't necessarily know why the moment (or situation) exists - (the train ticket example) but it will all lead me to what I desire (and to make my dominant desire, the desire to feel good). So I'm thinking a higher perspective when I have a negative emotion could be that my inner being is much bigger and more powerful in its attraction than little ol' me, conscious me - and therefore to trust my inner being in what is going on and how my inner being is integrating and working with that to get me to where I desire. Is this any where near accurate? If it were, I could see how it would be easier to have more faith and less desire to control (so tiring sometimes ...).

Kate


Dear Kate,

You hit the nail on the head. Your inner self is guiding you at all times, in every moment, to where you want to go. If not for your own resistance, everything you wanted and every experience you intended to have would flow to you easily and effortlessly. It is your stubborn insistence that you must control every situation, every person, every event, and every condition that makes it harder for you to become a vibrational match to what it is you want. We are not talking about you specifically, we are talking about every living human. You all do it to one degree or another.

So then, if you could imagine that your inner self could work all this out without you needing to control it, you might find life a bit easier. Here's how this works. You birth a desire and the fruit of your desire is created. Your desire exists somewhere in the universe and what your inner self will do is help you become a vibrational match to your desire. If you were a match to your desire, it would exist in your reality. Since it does not exist, you must become a match to it. You must change from who you are right now who does not match your desire, to the version of you who is a match to your desire.

The thing which is your desire is not simply created because it already exists. You must become a match to its vibration and this will allow it to enter your reality. Now change is not as big a deal as you think it is because you are constantly changing. You are quite different in this moment that who you were 20 years ago, 10 years ago, 10 days ago or even 10 seconds ago. Believe it or not, you are completely different then the version of you that existed just seconds ago.

So, armed with this knowledge, you might allow yourself to change. Here's how you change.

The universe must somehow mold you into this new version of you that matches your desire. You exist as a mix of beliefs, thoughts, feelings and attitudes which make up the bulk of your vibration. That mix must change. In reality your beliefs, thoughts, moods, attitudes, opinions and feelings must change. The way you change and expand is through experience. The universe will place you in situations called Manifestation Events where you have the opportunity to change. If you can go with the flow of these events, you will change quickly and easily. If you resist these events, you will resist the change that you desire and this will cause inner conflict and stress on the body. It will cause emotional pain.

When you resist something, you feel emotional pain. You feel negative emotion and this does not feel good. You might believe that the event itself is to blame for the pain you feel, but that it incorrect. It is your reaction to the event which causes the pain. If you believed that the event was part of your growth, if you could see that it was an indication that you are holding onto a limiting belief, if you could discover the irrational fear behind that belief, if you could show yourself evidence that the fear is false, then you would reduce the intensity of the limiting belief and you would have made the change that was intended by the manifestation event.

Now that you look back on this event having made the change that was necessary to move you one step closer to the realization of your desire, you would not feel any negative emotion. Your perspective would be different and since you're looking at the event in a way that serves who you really are and what you really want, you feel no negative emotion. This is proof that the event itself does not cause pain, simply your reaction to the event. The event is neutral and you get to decide if you'll view it as negative or positive. Since the event is for your growth and expansion so that you can move your vibration to a level that matches your desire, you see it as good and therefore you feel good.

Joshua

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