Allyson Question #76

 

Good Day Joshua,

I am traveling with 7 folks. Of course that means there are lots of different personalities (egos/fears/etc) and I am curious to find ways to "allow!" I have been very conscious of saying "let go" and "this is not for me to worry about" and other calming statements, but I could use a bit more.

Thank you in advance!
Allyson


Dear Allyson,

It is a habit of most people to believe that in order for them to receive that which they want, they must be in control. Control is an illusion. Because you are living life on the ground in your body perceiving reality through your five physical senses, you have a perspective that is somewhat limited. Imagine you as your inner self seeing and knowing what your inner self knows. From that perspective, not only can you read the vibrations of the others and know their fears, desires, thoughts, and beliefs, but you can see out far into the distance and know what is really going on in every situation. What you would see is the universe liming everything up so that everyone gets what they really want as long as they do not screw it up by trying to control things.

If your whole group had no agenda, had no expectations, and had no desire to control anything, then you could simply go with the flow of whatever is happening. If someone got an idea or saw something, you would know that it was an inspired thought that guided them to the idea and you would simply go off in that direction. If someone else had an idea, you would go off in that direction. If two people had ideas and went off in separate directions, you would not worry about it, you would simply go with the group you were inspired to join. You see, without fear, you can't get it wrong and everything will turn out perfectly to meet your every desire in the most elegant manner imaginable. Everything would unfold so much better than you could ever orchestrate on your own. However, as soon as you try to control anything, you allow fear into the dynamics.

The desire to control can only come from a place of fear. Fear, as you know, is the opposite of love. If you can understand the magnitude of the power of love, you can also imagine the lack of power in fear. Whenever you perceive anything as wrong, you do so from a place of fear. If you perceive everything as right, you do so from a place of love. Allow yourself to maintain your alignment by not entertaining fear and you possess the magnificent power of love. Just be going with the flow of whatever is happening is using the power of love. By being calm and easy about everything, you are engaging universal energies in love. That is all you ever have to think about.

Most humans are concerned about the conditions and so they choose to control the conditions in absolute fear. Their efforts might change the conditions, but their creations are paltry and insignificant compared to what could be if they would simply allow the universe to create the most magical things. By being in an allowing and aligned state, you are open to inspiration. The inspiration comes from Source. It is love. By acting on this inspiration, you move into the physical dimensions that will be most pleasing to you. By thinking you know what is best and you act out of fear, you take it out of the hands of the universe and into your own hands. It would be like kicking your chauffeur out of the car and taking control of the steering wheel, yet you have absolutely know idea where you are or how to get where you are going. You just think you do, but in reality, your perspective is limited.

Since you cannot control the group, nor would you want to, you must go with the flow. From your limited perspective, you perceive that if you allow these controlling people to make decisions for you, then all of the decisions will be made out of fear and will all turn out wrong. However, you are forgetting one important thing; you create your own reality. They have no ability to create in your reality. So what does that mean for you? You maintain your alignment and you do whatever you are inspired to do when you receive the inspiration. Until then, you simply enjoy how everything is unfolding. You do not seek control. You be your authentic self. In doing so you will maintain your alignment while everyone else is trying to control or complain, or whine, or have fun, or whatever. Your power while in alignment is a thousand times greater than the entirety of the group who are not in alignment. When you receive inspiration, you will move the group and they will follow you. Until then, be easy, have fun, observe, and go with the flow, because it is always working out for you if you will let it.

With our love,
We are Joshua

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