Dear Joshua,
I completely agree with your analysis of my friend with her cancer and that it is neutral. However, I don't feel you answered my question about me experiencing her in my reality. I truly feel good that she has had the experience of cancer and that it has awoken her to the truth of her reality. But I'm still wondering what my role is in the perception of her with cancer. Did I choose the version of her with cancer? Is there a version of her without cancer that is still not open to the laws of the universe? And are their multiple probably futures for her and can I choose the version of her I would like to experience for no other reason than that's just the version I choose to experience? Or is that placing conditions on how the future should unfold and that is backwards to how the universe works because it is always unfolding perfectly?
Thanks!
Steve
Dear Steve,
Do you have any other friends without cancer? Are you overjoyed by the fact they do not have cancer? Are you overjoyed by the fact that your friend with cancer does not have some other ailment? No. You think you will feel joy when your friend no longer has the cancer, but if she never had the cancer you would not be happy because she doesn't have cancer. So why are you basing your happiness on whether she has cancer or not?
You are a match to your friend with cancer and while she has many probabilities without cancer, you are not a match to any of those. So for you she has cancer and if she did not have cancer, this version of her would not be in your life. Therefore, from this perspective, you must be overjoyed that she has cancer for without the cancer she would not exist in your life, right?
Whether she has cancer or not does not depend on you. This understanding is a bit out of reach at the moment so let's talk about what is important here. First of all, you are a teacher and an uplifter, If she did not need you, she would not be able to hear or understand your teachings. Her cancer brought her to you and her cancer allowed you to share your knowledge of the universe with her. Had she not attracted the cancer, she would never have learned about the mechanism of physical reality because you would have been too shy to talk to her about it. It was only due to the desperation of her condition that allowed you the freedom from other people's opinions of you to talk to her about it.
The lesson for you is that you can share this information safely with people who are not experiencing a tragedy. Tragedy is the permission slip you use to share what you know. Now go out and discover more permission slips and share our teachings and the teachings of others with as many people as you feel comfortable with.
Your friend might not alter her beliefs and thoughts enough to change her condition in this life. But, she has expanded greatly in the process and due to the law of expansion, she has risen to a new vibrational level. In her next life she will be at a new place and it will not take such a vivid condition to bring her to the next level in her consciousness. The fact that you were there for her in this life will have tremendously positive implications in future lives.
If one can align with well being in any moment, one can be free from negative bodily conditions. However, this is rare due to the fact that thought patterns have existed for a long time and they have built up considerable momentum. You can share what you know, but you cannot create in another's reality. They will choose whether it is worth it to change in this life or in subsequent lives. The change is inevitable, however, it may take a little longer than you think. It is always the choice of the individual and they will choose based on what is most important to them.
Joshua
