Dear Joshua,
I have a theory - when I want something, I will see more and more of it in my reality as I am progressing towards my own personal manifestation of it. So for instance, let's say I want a particular car. Early on I will see it on the road, even though it is quite rare. Then as I get closer to my own personal manifestation an acquaintance or friend of mine will obtain one for themselves. I actually get to be around it often, sit in it, even drive it! I believe it's all helping the car become more "real" for me and for me to one day accept that I can own one.
I'm also becoming friends with people who are living the life I would like to live. I'm seeing this as a positive indicator. Some of things that I used to believe were "out of reach" become much more accessible when I see a friend living it.
So if I wasn't in the general vibrational frequency, I'm assuming I wouldn't be brushing up against these things. I'm taking this as a very positive sign. Would you agree?
Thanks!
Steve
Dear Steve,
Your theory is correct. As you hold onto a desire, without fear of it not manifesting, without planning exactly how it should show up, and without the need for it to look a certain way when it shows up, you will gradually see signs of it manifesting as you become more and more of a vibrational match to it. While it does not necessarily need to show up in increments, as it could just show up instantly, it is fun to see how it is showing up for you.
Any desire you have could manifest immediately in any moment. It is exactly as possible for a desire to manifest instantly as it is for it to manifest gradually over time. Remember that the thing you want is always there, you just can't recognize it because you are not yet a match to it. For an easy example, you know the car you desire exists now, right? It exists in some showroom or factory in its present form. It's not a match to you because the version of you who owns and drives the car does not yet exist. That version needs to come to fruition before you allow yourself to own the car.
You could probably buy this car now if you sold your possessions and got a loan for the difference. Maybe you could even get a loan without having to sell anything, but you still might ave to convince your wife it's a good idea. Yet, the version of your wife who thinks it's a good idea to buy this car exists and will be present when you make the necessary changes to allow for the manifestation of the car. It's just that you have a strict set of rules and beliefs and you believe these are good rules and beliefs to have. And they are for they have created the life you now enjoy. When you alter your rules, you more easily attract the object of your desire. However, you are attached to these rules.
For instance, you could rob a bank or swindle a friend or do many things that would bring in the money you think you need to own the car. But these things go against your self-made rules and you believe that is a good thing. We concur. Just know that all your rules are self-imposed and therefore all rules are limiting.
What you have (and what everyone has) are conflicting vibrations. You want this and this and that, but you also want that and this and this. You believe they are mutually exclusive, but they are not. You can have it all if you allow it all. That's the hard part. You allow all that you have now and you resist all that you desire that you do not have. Fear plays a part, but so does sound judgment. Is there anything sound in sound judgment? We'll leave that for you to decide.
There are people living on your planet with few, if any, rules. We will not say that they are all living happy and fulfilling lives. Some are and some are not. All of them are limited to some degree by fear and limiting beliefs, yet they have less fear than most. Some have replaced fear with confidence. Some have replaced fear with apathy. Each life is unique and everyone has a unique set of beliefs and rules. You have the ability to modify these rules to suit your life and to bring more of what you want into your life now.
Everything you want exists, you simply allow it to come by allowing your rules to be broken and your limiting beliefs to be altered. Start thinking more about the rules you have and start analyzing why they are important to you. You are doing very well and you are seeing evidence of many things manifesting in your life. Keep on your path of appreciation and realize that this is all an elaborate illusion here for your specific and ultimate joy in discovery.
Joshua
