Kyla Question #88

 

Joshua,

In the midst all this talk about power, I've just had a man ask me if I would be willing to play out his fantasy of being dominated by a powerful, aggressive woman. The irony of the situation is not lost on me, but the very concept feels so foreign that I have no idea how I would even go about doing that. It's funny because in real life I do feel powerful and aggressive to some extent, but in my sexual relationships I don't necessarily carry that same attitude.

My best friend, who is hilarious, always says "I'll try anything twice." and that's was my initial reaction to this man's request. But I'd be lying if I said there wasn't some irrational fear about how to go about doing so. This is foreign territory for me. Would love to hear your insights on this.

Also...on a completely unrelated note...you mentioned in one of your last few answers that I was only half-way through the One on One. Does that mean I get to keep doing this for another six months, because I'm pretty sure I started about six months ago. No complaints here if that's the case, just wanted to get some clarification on that front.

With love,
Kyla


Dear Kyla,

If you are inspired to do something, and you are in a high emotional state of being, then you can feel comfortable proceeding knowing that the outcome will be for your highest good. Push past any irrational fears and take the action you are inspired to take. This man could not have asked you this if you were not a vibrational match to it. This means that the experience will likely alter some beliefs, both beneficial and limiting. Generally, a situation like this is the next step to the manifestation of another desire. It can also be pleasurable and joyful on its own.

Just because you can't picture something doesn't mean you can't proceed. You will be amazed at what you can do without any prior experience. Simply be in the moment and be open to what you feel. Get yourself in the zone by intending how you want the experience to unfold. What would be fun? What would be comfortable? What would be thrilling? Channel someone you think would be powerful in this role. It's just a role. It does not define you.

While you are playing your role, play it fully. Do not be afraid of what he or anyone might think. This is as much for you as it is for him. In fact, in the bigger picture, it is much more for you. Your experience of dominance in this situation will carry forth to other areas of your life. We believe it will be a life-altering experience.

On a related note, we are thrilled to interact with you as long as you are having fun.

With our genuine love and support,
We are Joshua

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