Kate Question #32

 

Dear Joshua,

Thank you for telling me you get what Im saying even when Im not saying it .... that helps a lot, to know that you understand what I'm trying to get at.

I know there are still plenty of re-iteration questions I will be asking when I read and reread and start to understand more.

I really appreciate the rate of questions, because it forces me to stay focused on what we are doing together here - and that you give me the time and energy to grow like this seems to me like I am more blessed than I can say (I would say lucky, but, well, that isn't the case is it :).

Today, I remembered to intend, whenever I remembered. General things - a good fun day, a fun meeting, remembering to question beliefs (that is far from automatic still - I'm looking forward to getting to the point where with an emotion I more easily remember to look at the belief behind it), and I have to say, there have been moments over the last few days where I have felt happy, proud, in fun and blessed and it feels gooooooooood .... of course I have felt all these emotions before but just for the moment, it feels... different ... maybe a bit more frequent? Maybe a bit more regular... of course I'm nervous to say that in case it stops (and of course, things will happen, but I'm enjoying it as it is).

And I do remind myself that it is all good (when I remember)... I'm starting to understand that...

I'm starting to understand that everything comes based on my vibration and that is a mix of things (me, inner being, source etc) and the best way to manage my vibration is to relax and go with the flow since all is working out. For that to become a part of my knowing will be good.

I'm learning that my job is to get out of the way knowing that it is all working out. I guess I came into this understanding that I had to manage my vibration more than I do... and you are teaching, showing, suggesting to me to trust more and this seems to be working ...

Little things happened today which were nice... some clients showed me some recognition by contacting me, either to say they were moving cities or leaving the industry (3 in fact, in two days) and gave me contacts to stay in touch - I was surprised and touched and appreciative. The weather was beautiful, my boss seems more relaxed. And just for today I appreciated that... a lot.

Moving back into a state of allowing isn't yet smooth, instinctive, or immediate but that is ok, too, right? So my practice now is to work on getting into a state of allowing when I notice i'm feeling negative emotions and I agree - my perspective is the work. Finding ways to look at things where I can feel ok about them. The one way i've found so far is to remind myself that all is well, and to step back a bit - focus on other things....

There is no obvious question here .... rambling but giving you some feedback.

If you feel the discord, is it because the intention is too specific, which means it is not in alignment with your present vibration? So while it can happen, will it happen more easily by backing off the specific intention and going more general?

Kate


Dear Kate,

If you hold a desire for something specific, it is because you believe that manifesting that thing will make you feel good. The discord happens because while you are choosing to manifest something specific you think you want, your world is being created by your vibration and the universe knows what you really want. You have an inkling of what is wanted, but the universe knows the full and total scope of what you really want. The universe is responding to the entirety of your vibration. The universe knows how to bring you the fullest and most elegant manifestation of what you truly desire. You don't know as much about what you really want as the universe does so it's very easy to get confused when your life takes a turn that seems to be moving away from what is wanted.

Let's imagine that what you truly want is to do your job as only you could do it. You have a certain set of attributes, which are unique, and you will eventually develop a way of doing your job that aligns with those attributes. Other people do the job differently and right now, you are trying to emulate their style. But what you really want, whether you are consciously aware of this or not, is to develop your own style. Your style will be different because it must be. You are unique, so your plan will seem strange to other people. But it will become extremely effective in time and they will eventually realize this. However, in the beginning, it sometimes will seem as if it isn't working because the numbers do not support it yet.

You choose to be persistent because you know that your way of doing the job is right for you. People will try to tell you that it's not working and in some cases it won't work. Clients who do not see the value will abandon you, but you are better off without these particular clients in the long term. These clients get in your way and bog you down. In order for your system to work, you need clients who are in it for the long term. So when a client leaves you, what is your perspective? If you believed that the desire to keep a client was most important, you would feel negative emotion because you would be looking at the loss of a client as a bad thing. You would think this because you have a limiting belief based in fear. The fear is lack and insecurity and you think that losing this ultimately unprofitable client who will end up wasting your time and screwing up your system is a bad thing when actually it's a good thing. You just can't see that from where you stand.

So knowing you cannot see how this will all unfold, you reframe your perspective. While initially you felt bad over the loss of this client, you now choose to look at the event in a new way. You choose to believe that things are working out. You choose to believe that you cannot see how what you really want will unfold. You talk to yourself and you soothe yourself by saying that the client leaving is a good thing even though you don't understand it now. You look at your limiting belief based in fear and you remind yourself that you will attract other clients who want to be with you because you offer something that no one else can. You are unique and you have a unique set of attributes. You offer value and your core clients will know this.

This is how you change your perspective to one that makes you feel better. You stop the resistance of the negative emotion and you shift to new, better-feeling thoughts which are empowering and will lead you to what is wanted. Negative emotion is resistance and the limiting beliefs which cause them are just that; limiting. There's no need to be resistant if you have faith that things are coming to you. Believe in the power of the universe to yield to your desires and all you want will start to flow into your reality.

You are loved more than you could imagine.

Joshua

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