Isabelle Question #2

 

Hi Joshua,

I'm happy to be in your dimension too. Thank you for explaining the Universal Laws and I'm sure I will have more questions about it later on.

Often you mention the mirror and that what is said being to us is a reflection of our vibration. I've observed others, for example a husband or boyfriend accusing the girl of cheating or lying and it is often the accuser that is exhibiting the behavior. For example in my own life my husband, boyfriend at that time, accused me of being fat. Maybe I did feel fat, but then I stripped down in front of the mirror and critically looked at my body. It was beautiful and not fat. I went back into the bedroom and told him that, and good luck to him. That I, being a female, can get a male easily and that he was feeling fat and insecure. He broke down and cried and confessed he was feeling fat and unattractive. I explained to him that his brain is way more attractive than the package of his body. Since then he has never said anything about my weight, which is a good thing because I'm definitely heavier.

Looking back I can recognize it was a manifestation event, but I see that he too was mirroring his vibration? So how do we know what is being reflected from us or the other person?

Last night I had a manifestation event. Over at a friend's house, a girl broke down crying. Liz was trying to make a point that female liberation has hindered us. Her argument was that twenty years ago a females could stay home and raise a family and live on one income; therefore, having more freedom and time. Now females work and take care of the household, doing two jobs instead of one. I said even if that was true, the fact that we now have the opportunity to work if we choose wasn't readily available twenty-years-ago. Some women wanted to get out of the house and have a career and the culture at the time was limiting. Then the girl that Liz was trying to make her point to, turned to me and said Fuck you, you don't know me.

Ok, so this is my ask - was that a reflection of my vibration? I chalked it up that she was overwhelmed and had a bit too much Sangria. She wasn't thinking clearly and had a lot of resistance. She was trying to convey that she works from 7:00 in the morning until five and in charge of taking the kids to the doctors, and grocery shop and cook, etc. Not trusting her husband to help. But when she turned to me in anger, it surprised me. She said that we were all judging her and I think that is what she felt. I wasn't the only person she told Fuck you to, but I was the first person she singled out.

It is all curious to me, but my perception of the mirror makes me wonder if it bounces the reflection back of the person vibration onto the other and then back. My mother used to accuse me of being a slut, and I was a virgin. Thinking her reflection/fear is being projected onto me. Now she tells me that I'm selfish and self-centered which again, I take it as her fear being projected. I actually see those traits in her, and let it roll off my back.

I hope this all makes sense on wanting further clarification of the mirror effect. Is it always a reflection of your vibration or can it be projected?

Thanks so much,
with love
Isabelle


Dear Isabelle,

The idea of the mirror is interesting, isn't it? It is true that the reality you perceive is based on your vibration and that reality itself is a reflection of what you feel. However, you have to really understand what it is you feel and not take everything so literally. Also, in a manifestation event, it is important to understand the fear that causes the negative emotion. If you did not have a negative emotion (just surprise) then you might have been witnessing someone else's manifestation event and noticing that the other person or people were feeling fear. Often, you may play a part in someone else's manifestation event and you might be inspired to say something that triggers them. Sometimes you are simply the path of least resistance and the universe uses you, because you are there and willing, and you say or do something that triggers a fear in the other person.

In this case, if you felt no negative emotion, then the event was not really for you. If you felt slight negative emotion, then there was a slight fear wrapped up in it (maybe around having said something wrong). If you felt intense negative emotion, then there was an intense fear. Otherwise, you were simply playing the role you agreed to play and by observing the other person's fear, you can learn something about that fear and if or how it might relate to you. You being there doesn't necessarily mean that you have issues with freedom or liberation and the fact is that you saw the positive side of that liberation stick. The other woman perceived it differently based on her own experiences, limiting beliefs and fears.

If your mate calls you fat, that is something he said out of fear. Often, a statement like that comes from someone trying to coerce you into a behavior or attitude or belief that causes them to feel better. Imagine that incident and think about the other person. He felt insecure in his body and this fear attracted thoughts about not being worthy of you. A conscious and aware person might look at that fear and re-align themselves with the true and empowering perspective that if you existed in his reality, then he was a match to you and of course he was worthy of you. However, if left unchecked, the fear attracts thoughts that make him feel bad. In response to those thoughts, he attracts urges and compulsions to make himself feel better. He might believe that by degrading your value, his value is perceived as greater than it was. It's simply a compulsive action taken from a stance of fear.

Now, how could this be reflected on you? That would depend on the emotion you felt at the time. You might have felt great negative emotion and the fear of not being worthy. But you did not let that fear go unchecked. You took an honest look at yourself in the mirror and came to the conclusion that your body is perfect and you are worthy of any man. This is choosing the higher perspective on purpose so that aligns with your inner self. This is coming back into alignment by reducing the intensity of the fear under careful analysis. This is the work. This is how you create the reality you prefer. This is conscious creation. How on earth did you learn to do this? It was intended for this process to come naturally, but so few are able to do it. Bravo.

In this case, there was a mirror to a minor issue about worthiness and you received a manifestation event and did your work. It wasn't that you were fat, it was that your partner felt insecure and was inspired to say something to make him feel better. You perceived it in a way that related to a small issue on your part, but you resolved it by finding proof that the statement and the fear were both false and this stopped the momentum.

If your mother calls you a slut when that is not the case, then she is exposing her fear and trying to make herself feel better by controlling you. Certainly, this is the old approach and cannot work. In fact, her words and actions are more likely to bring about the very thing she fears as you rebel against her sentiment. That too would be for her benefit because her fears are completely irrational. She was only doing something to try to make herself feel better. You knew the statement was false and so that aspect was not a mirror. However, you might have felt resentment for her not trusting you or not believing in you and to that extent, the event was for you, but the idea of the mirror is misleading. The mirror means that the feeling you are fearing is how you will perceive the event even if the person says something unrelated to that fear. The event is for you and for the other person as well, but not in the same way every time.

Your vibration places you in the event, but how the event is perceived is completely different for everyone involved. It is based on the individual's personal fears, beliefs, and perception. When you can remain calm in these times, you will not only see how the event is for you, but also how the event is for all of the people involved. This gives you a broad perspective and great insights into the fears of those around you. From this perspective, you can literally know why they do what they do and you can even predict it in the future. It's fascinating to watch.

Your questions are bringing us to new levels of understanding as we strive to reach for higher thoughts and better ways of explaining the dynamics of physical reality. For that, we appreciate you greatly.

With our love,
We are Joshua

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