Arnaud Question #3

 

Hi Joshua,

I absolutely love your answer, thank you! It has really put a smile on my face and given me the perspective I was reaching for about the lottery. I do consider myself to be very lucky indeed to be where I am now!

I have another fun question. How do we benefit from the people who inspire us, without falling into the trap of comparing ourselves negatively to them? The other day, a friend of mine started a new job in London. After a week, he said to me jokingly, I think my boss is a cyborg. I asked him, "what makes you think so?" He explained that his boss had come back to London from a long trip to Asia, was in the office the next day at 8am, and then flew to New York for a meeting, to be back in the office in London the day after, and was always smiling and knew the answer to every question on every subject you could throw at him (except football, he's rubbish at football apparently). So, his conclusion was "you have to be a cyborg for that." My conclusion was: "This man must be a great allower." When you see someone flowing energy effortlessly like this, it can be tempting to compare yourself to them in a way that does not serve you. So, how can I look at these examples to raise my vibration?

With love and gratitude,
Arnaud


Dear Arnaud,

When you look at someone like that, you can see them as a shining example of alignment. They are doing what they love. They are still facing challenges, but they are thriving because in alignment, they have access to energy, information, and the full force and powers of the universe. They are in the flow. They are focused. They are authentic. That are doing what they came here to do. They see everything as right. They offer little resistance. If something pops up in their reality, they don't freak out, they rationally process it and move on. They make life look easy.

You have that power and ability. Everyone does. If you look at someone like the man you have described, you can either feel envy or inspiration. That is what focus is all about. You can focus on the idea that he is inspiring to you. You can allow that inspiration to guide you. You can realize that the example of him came into your life because you are a match to the idea of him. At this point you have a choice to make; will you be inspired or will you be envious? Your choice determines your future, so think carefully.

Your choice of focus determines your future. Your reactions let the universe know where you stand. If you react the same way you always have, let's say with envy, the universe knows that you are not ready yet. You are not ready to find and pursue your passion. You still have too much fear to process. There are still too many limiting beliefs held within you. You are not yet a match to the life you came here to pursue.

However, if you realize that this man is yet another example of alignment appearing in your reality, and he inspires you like the others have, and you feel differently about it now compared to how you might have reacted in the past, then you are moving closer and closer to the reality you prefer. The universe sees the shift within you. It has become part of your vibration. You will now be tested. Is the fear still there, or are you perceiving life differently? If you pass the test, you move forward. If not, the universe brings you new examples and new manifestation events. It all comes down to your reactions.

Everything is neutral. This man who seems to be able to do it all can be seen as an inspiration of as something that is out of your reach. He can be a symbol of good or bad. in reality, he is neither. He becomes that which you choose to perceive. How you perceive anything, whether it is good or bad tells the universe a lot about who you are being as compared to who you really are. Who you really are is a magnificent and limitless being of pure positive love and acceptance. That is who you authentically are. As that version of you, you perceive everything as right and you see no wrong. If you believe anything is wrong, it is based in fear. The fear is that you do not want it or cannot have it. That is irrelevant. If it is in your reality, it is for you. You have to figure out how. When you look at something that you once might have perceived as wrong and now you choose to dig deeper and see how it might be right, you've just switched the script.

Your script is based on how your character approaches life. Doesn't that make sense? If the character of Arnaud (played by you) is always doing this, then if something comes along that he would never do, then it would never come along, because that would be out of character and never make any sense. It would not be in his script. That experience would belong to another character. However, if we see Arnaud change his approach to life, then he gets a new script and new experiences can enter his reality. But he must be tested first. This production is too expensive and intricate. If he is not going to be able to handle the fear around these experiences then the experiences will not be for him. The producers (the universe) want to make sure it is realistic for your character to experience these situations. If it is, the audience (you) will love it. If it is not, the audience (you) won't get it. It won't fit within the story.

You are moving from fear to love. You are starting to understand physical reality in a new way. You are realizing that you are the star of your reality. You can be a big star or a minor character. It doesn't matter to the producers. You can play any part you like. Why not take the best role for yourself?

With our love,
We are Joshua

Back