Allyson Question #22

 

Dear Joshua,

My daughter has always had some interest in the teachings of LOA and when I told her that I'd been accepted into the One on One with you, she was so sincerely excited for me. In her free time, I think she reads my questions and answers. (She's coming to visit today so I'll find out more about her thinking.)

Meanwhile, she's distraught about a situation and she wanted me to ask you about it. She went abroad for 6 months and has returned to find (at this point) that all her clothes are gone. A huge duffle and two big bags of clothes are seemingly missing. She has asked friends, it's not in her storage unit, they were not in her car which I had parked in a friends garage, etc. She's stubbornly convinced she's lost them.

"Mom, where are my clothes? OK, so the question really is ... what the heck is FOR me in this? I don't have the money to buy new clothes! All my clothes. I can't believe I can't find them. Ask Joshua!"

Side note: I have very little attachment to worrying about this. I keep telling her they will be found when she is ready. She's a bit upset that I'm not matching her concern over this.

Thank you!
Allyson


Dear Allyson,

Isn't interesting to be aware of the laws of the universe and the mechanism of physical reality and watch someone who is resisting the conditions as they present themselves? Losing something appears to be wrong, but there is no wrong anywhere in the universe. It must be right. You know that this is for her. She even realizes it herself. But from the limited perspective, it may be difficult for you to see how it is for her.

The primary law of the universe is the Law of Attraction. This law requires you to be a vibrational match to everything that exists in your reality. If you receive something, it's because you have become a vibrational match to it. If something leaves your reality, it's because you are no longer a match to it (because you are now a match to something that aligns with the expanded and evolved version of you). Your vibration always rises, it never recedes. If your daughter has been abroad for six months, she has had many lifechanging experiences and has expanded greatly through this trip. Her vibration is much higher now compared to when she left.

Her vibration is simply not a match to those clothes in her current state. She may have resistance about wearing the old clothes, she simply may have vibrationally grown out of those clothes, or she may even resent the fact that she doesn't really want those clothes, but can't afford new clothes. Whatever it is, it has only to do with her vibration not being a match to those clothes.

Now, if the resistance is around not appreciating the fact that she is stuck with old clothes, but really wants new ones, then she can either accept the fact that she will have to get new clothes or start appreciating the old clothes. Either way, it will work out for her. Let's assume she can vibrationally appreciate the clothes she thinks are lost. If she really, truly chooses to think about how much she loves those clothes, then they will come back to her. She will find them. If she secretly desires new clothes, then she will find a way to get new clothes, because she is a vibrational match to new clothes. If her vibration is just different now, it's also quite possible that the old clothes would have made her feel like the old version of who she was before the trip. Therefore, she would not like wearing those clothes anyway, because they wouldn't feel right.

If something is lost, you can know for certain that you are not a vibrational match to it right now. You can find the thing you lost through appreciation, gratitude, and love. You can become calm and release the attachment to what you think you lost. You can find a higher perspective and regain your high emotional state of being. You can then sit quietly and listen to your thoughts. "Where is that thing I want?" you ask yourself. "I am not attached to finding the thing, I am simply asking to find the vibration of it." If you can find the vibration, then the thought of where the lost item is will be revealed to you. If you are simply no longer a match to the lost item, you will not receive its location.

Sometimes, things leave you in order to make room for something more that is a vibrational match. This is good. You want new things and experiences to enter your life. You do not have to hold onto everything. The only reason you do this is due to the irrational fear of loss. Do not fear loss, because you can never really lose anything. You will always be connected to everything you have ever owned and everyone you have ever known. If you can maintain a high emotional state of being, you will receive guidance. You will receive the location of the lost items, or the first step on the path to the new items that are ready to enter your reality. It's a very nice system, indeed!

This manifestation event is for your daughter. She will witness how the universe really works. She will either become a match to her old clothes through the feeling of appreciation and love, or she will become a match to clothes that suit the new and expanded version she has become. It will always be right. It is always working out.

With our love for you and your daughter,
We are Joshua

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